Building a Bayis Neeman B'Yisrael Q&A - I Don't Know What I'm Doing

This weeks question - I have heard and learned that the environment of a home comes from the woman. I would like to have a more yiddishe home than I grew up in, but sometimes I struggle to know how to create that without ever having lived in a home like that and knowing really what it should even ideally be. How do I work towards this goal without a clear picture of what success would look like?